Living in harmony... is a choice.  The thing is that when you are in the middle of SOMETHING, it doesn't usually feel like you have a choice.  Often, circumstances can be frustrating, overwhelming, confusing or some other feeling.  And the only person who can make it different for you, is you.  

Step back.  Give yourself a minute or 10.  Remember who you really are.  Connect to the truth within you, return or restore yourself back to balance, peace and harmony.  Then, as you step back into what is going on around you... you bring that energy with you, and your experience will be different.  

The choice, is always yours... Blessings,